{"id":2653,"date":"2016-07-22T08:23:21","date_gmt":"2016-07-22T08:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/creativelifechanges.com\/?p=2653"},"modified":"2018-04-26T21:46:30","modified_gmt":"2018-04-26T21:46:30","slug":"networking-is-a-life-skill","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quietbrillianceconsulting.com\/networking-is-a-life-skill\/","title":{"rendered":"Networking Is A Life Skill"},"content":{"rendered":"

I hear it over and over again: \u201cI can\u2019t network. I\u2019m an introvert.\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t know what to say.\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t want to brag.\u201d A lot of people don\u2019t like networking, but the bulk of them seem to be introverts.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m an introvert, too, and I\u2019m also an entrepreneur, having to teach myself along the way how to reach out and build that body of interested people who support and buy what I do. To make it even harder, I retired in California, moved back to Minneapolis, waited a few years, and then found I wanted to start a business in a city where I had no business contacts and only one friend (a nun).<\/span><\/p>\n

Business coaches stymied me from the <\/span>start, because they would start by saying: \u201cFirst, send a warm letter to all of your friends, telling them what you\u2019re doing and asking for their support.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Oh. A fellow coach wailed that she only had 100 friends on her Christmas card list, and I was awed by her popularity. This was an exercise at which I never excelled<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0because my Christmas card list was five.<\/span><\/p>\n

Introverts, whom I often call the \u201cQuietly Brilliant,\u201d are very likely to have one or two very deep friendships and a moderate number of pleasant acquaintances. This is dangerous for many reasons, among them the fact that those one or two deep relationships, whether professional or personal, can disappear in a wink of an eye, for such reasons as:<\/span><\/p>\n