{"id":4832,"date":"2023-10-06T15:23:58","date_gmt":"2023-10-06T15:23:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quietbrillianceconsulting.com\/?p=4832"},"modified":"2023-11-01T16:45:31","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T16:45:31","slug":"who-do-you-trust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quietbrillianceconsulting.com\/who-do-you-trust\/","title":{"rendered":"WHO DO YOU TRUST?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">Trust is the gold coin of relationships both personal and professional. Without it, no successful transaction, interpersonal or business, can take place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">So, what do you look for when you need to trust in order to connect and interact with another? Do you have a list of trustworthy qualities that you can articulate, or do you answer to your gut? And how often does your gut say \u201cno\u201d vs. a warm, welcoming \u201cyes\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">How often have you been wrong and ended up lamenting the fact that you were not vigilant enough or, even worse, that you missed a sparkling opportunity?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">The one supportive relationship you may not have been encouraged to consult is the one with your heart, which could help clarify your thinking about what you really want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">You may have had this intuitive experience when you are on a vacation or otherwise in a situation that disconnects you from your daily life and allows you to relax.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">It&#8217;s much more difficult to attain that peaceful state of inner communication under stress, which is much of the time nowadays.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">Here are some simple tactics to help guide you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">Ask yourself when you say \u201cyes\u201d do you really mean \u201cyes\u201d or do you mean: I\u2019ll go along with this because I\u2019m not sure I have a right to what I really want, or because I don\u2019t want to offend someone else, or because I don\u2019t want to stand out in a crowd, or because\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">Are you able to say \u201cno\u201d easily without fear because you are sure of your values and your tastes?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">Do you accept the \u201cnoes\u201d and \u201cyesses\u201d of others easily, or do you react as if their choice hurts you personally?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">When you are faced with either a yes or a no decision, stop, take a deep breath, and pay attention to your body, especially your heart and your gut. You might want to leave your brain out of this discussion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt;\">Once you establish a calm center of self-trust it is much easier to see clearly where other people stand and make your decision about how to deal with them<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mc_embed_shell\">\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #000000;\">Subscribe up for my newsletter to receive unfolding information about this exciting topic and the new courses I will be offering.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Lynette Crane\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">is a Minneapolis-based future-focused thought leader, speaker, and coach.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">After creating the first college course in the Psychology of Stress over 40 years ago, she turned her attention uncovering the leadership potential of introverts in her ground-breaking book, Quiet Brilliance: Solving Corporate America\u2019s Leadership Crisis with \u2018Hiding in Plain Sight\u2019 Talent.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Her newest program, Evolutionary Resilience Roadmap, based on the latest research in neuropsychology and quantum physics, is designed for people overwhelmed by the anxiety and uncertainty of our turbulent world, <\/span><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">giving them the skills to develop clarity, coherence, and creativity.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trust is the gold coin of relationships both personal and professional. 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